Whenever a new link shows up on my blog dashboard, I always wonder who the blog author is if I don’t recognize the name. The Casanova Diary linked to me and while I haven’t figured out who the author is, I liked the first few posts on his site. One is called B.D. and A.D., or before divorce and after divorce. As my divorce became final two years ago tomorrow, I am familiar with the concept of B.D. and A.D. Being in a 9-year relationship, I built a lot of memories. And while the loss doesn’t hurt as much as it did before, there’s still a dull ache that hasn’t been filled. Sometimes I wonder if it will ever be filled. Not that I won’t ever love anyone again, because I will, but I won’t love someone in that same innocent, excited way that I did as a 20-year-old girl. Because that was me, way B.D.
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Monique on 02.22.2007 
You sound just like me not too long ago. I got married at 20, divorced at 27. I wondered whether the void I was feeling would ever be filled. 6 years later and I can say the void is almost completely gone! Hopefully it won’t take you as long as it did me. I think the “void” I feel won’t be completely gone until I get married again. It’s close to be gone though, just not yet…
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janda (Who am I?) - February 23, 2007 9:29 pm