Comments on: Again http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/ When we were wired, the world was like a secret. -- Matthew Good Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:17:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Nikki http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-514 Nikki Thu, 29 Jun 2006 13:47:50 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-514 You have got to be joking me. Cut this sorry guy loose. Sex is great, It's great to have sex with out emotional strings, it's even better to havegreat sex, but it's not great to have great sex and be treated like crap after. Blow him off because YOU deserve BETTER than that. You have got to be joking me. Cut this sorry guy loose. Sex is great, It’s great to have sex with out emotional strings, it’s even better to havegreat sex, but it’s not great to have great sex and be treated like crap after.

Blow him off because YOU deserve BETTER than that.

]]> By: Monique http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-507 Monique Wed, 28 Jun 2006 03:43:35 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-507 It's not that I want more, or that I want less, but I know that I want something different from what I have ... and, if nothing else, the last 18 months have shown me that what I have now is what I'll always have with him. Unless something/someone changes, that is, and it's not going to be me. It’s not that I want more, or that I want less, but I know that I want something different from what I have … and, if nothing else, the last 18 months have shown me that what I have now is what I’ll always have with him. Unless something/someone changes, that is, and it’s not going to be me.

]]> By: Izzy http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-506 Izzy Wed, 28 Jun 2006 02:20:02 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-506 I really am sorry that things turned out as they did... The lesson I've learned...is that sometimes even though we know what we don't want, it's still too hard to figure out exactly what we do want and so we hold on to what we have and wait...not exactly for the other person to have a light bulb moment but for ourselves. Sometimes we just need the constant no matter how bad it is while we struggle to make sense of what we want...just because it's better than being alone. And it's ok to still want to be with them...as long as you can remember why it is you aren't exactly "with" them. No one says you have to give him up...you just may have to give up wanting and/or hoping for more than what you have right now...but is that enough for you? I really am sorry that things turned out as they did…

The lesson I’ve learned…is that sometimes even though we know what we don’t want, it’s still too hard to figure out exactly what we do want and so we hold on to what we have and wait…not exactly for the other person to have a light bulb moment but for ourselves.

Sometimes we just need the constant no matter how bad it is while we struggle to make sense of what we want…just because it’s better than being alone.

And it’s ok to still want to be with them…as long as you can remember why it is you aren’t exactly “with” them.

No one says you have to give him up…you just may have to give up wanting and/or hoping for more than what you have right now…but is that enough for you?

]]> By: Monique http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-504 Monique Tue, 27 Jun 2006 13:59:18 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-504 He apologized this morning, but the conversation still leaves a bad taste in my mouth. If I knew what I wanted, then I could tell him and we could end it once and for all, or not, but I just know I don't want this .... He apologized this morning, but the conversation still leaves a bad taste in my mouth. If I knew what I wanted, then I could tell him and we could end it once and for all, or not, but I just know I don’t want this ….

]]> By: Mr. Fabulous http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-503 Mr. Fabulous Tue, 27 Jun 2006 10:29:10 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-503 Men. Sheesh. There must be SOME mature ones out there... Men. Sheesh. There must be SOME mature ones out there…

]]> By: kat http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-502 kat Tue, 27 Jun 2006 07:34:13 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-502 a friend of mine once asked me what i was going to do when all the guys i was good friends with decided at the same time that they were in love with me and couldn't live without me. she was full of shit. i knew it at the time, and the guys haven't been strong enough to step up if they were indeed ever in love with me. waiting for the lightbulb to shine above the guy's heads has proven for me as well to be a waste of time. also, i sure don't date guys my age for similar reasons to what you're experiencing. then again i haven't had much luck with any other age group. i'm full of crap. i just wanted to keep you company. hey, at least you can claim being a sex goddess. rock on, you sexy thing! over and out. a friend of mine once asked me what i was going to do when all the guys i was good friends with decided at the same time that they were in love with me and couldn’t live without me. she was full of shit. i knew it at the time, and the guys haven’t been strong enough to step up if they were indeed ever in love with me. waiting for the lightbulb to shine above the guy’s heads has proven for me as well to be a waste of time.

also, i sure don’t date guys my age for similar reasons to what you’re experiencing. then again i haven’t had much luck with any other age group. i’m full of crap. i just wanted to keep you company. hey, at least you can claim being a sex goddess. rock on, you sexy thing! over and out.

]]> By: NYC Watchdog http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-501 NYC Watchdog Tue, 27 Jun 2006 05:01:09 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/06/26/again/#comment-501 What an ass. Hey Ryan you hear me??? Oh wait... this is a blog... he Ryan do you read me??? U R AN ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Monique... lose the incredible sex zero... go get a hero... BTW... I updated the link... so sorry about that... it slipped my mind. What an ass. Hey Ryan you hear me??? Oh wait… this is a blog… he Ryan do you read me??? U R AN ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monique… lose the incredible sex zero… go get a hero…

BTW… I updated the link… so sorry about that… it slipped my mind.

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