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	<title>Comments on: Extend a Warm Welcome to My Special Guest</title>
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		<title>By: Country Girl</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-271</link>
		<dc:creator>Country Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 19:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, you're brave.  I would never have the nerve to share my blog with anyone that knows me personally.  Ryan's in for some major realizations when he reads it.  BTW, it sounds like you deserve much better than him.  I know ending things are easier said than done...people become a habit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, you&#8217;re brave.  I would never have the nerve to share my blog with anyone that knows me personally.  Ryan&#8217;s in for some major realizations when he reads it.  BTW, it sounds like you deserve much better than him.  I know ending things are easier said than done&#8230;people become a habit.</p>
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		<title>By: Izzy</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-270</link>
		<dc:creator>Izzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 17:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Probably should of read my own comments before leaving mine for you...lol. 

So I guess I will be uncrossing my fingers...or...?

I am the last person in the world who should be giving you advise in this situation but...that really isn't going to stop me...lol.

Ask yourself three questions...1. What are you getting out of the relationship? 2. Are you satisfied with the answer to number one? 3. And if not, how long are you willing to wait (put your life on hold) for the man to turn number two's answer into a yes?

And just keep in mind, that he is a man, chances are if the answer to number two is 'no' and the answer to number three is not 'til the end of time'...your screwed.

As for me, although I can be a little shaky with dimples too, my weak spot has always been good hands...which is why I'm probably going to need to borrow your paddle soon...lol.

Just kidding...this time around (in keeping with my own advice), I have two very good reasons.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Probably should of read my own comments before leaving mine for you&#8230;lol. </p>
<p>So I guess I will be uncrossing my fingers&#8230;or&#8230;?</p>
<p>I am the last person in the world who should be giving you advise in this situation but&#8230;that really isn&#8217;t going to stop me&#8230;lol.</p>
<p>Ask yourself three questions&#8230;1. What are you getting out of the relationship? 2. Are you satisfied with the answer to number one? 3. And if not, how long are you willing to wait (put your life on hold) for the man to turn number two&#8217;s answer into a yes?</p>
<p>And just keep in mind, that he is a man, chances are if the answer to number two is &#8216;no&#8217; and the answer to number three is not &#8217;til the end of time&#8217;&#8230;your screwed.</p>
<p>As for me, although I can be a little shaky with dimples too, my weak spot has always been good hands&#8230;which is why I&#8217;m probably going to need to borrow your paddle soon&#8230;lol.</p>
<p>Just kidding&#8230;this time around (in keeping with my own advice), I have two very good reasons.</p>
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		<title>By: New York City's Watchdog</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-269</link>
		<dc:creator>New York City's Watchdog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 03:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.  You told Ryan.  I'm not sure what is more overcoming... fear or glee?

Fear because... well we all know what has happened to those who have went public or even semi-public about their blogs.  Even I have documented my issues about what happened when I did that.  I hope it goes better for you.

Glee because this means you can finally wear the t-shirt and be as scandalous as you want!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  You told Ryan.  I&#8217;m not sure what is more overcoming&#8230; fear or glee?</p>
<p>Fear because&#8230; well we all know what has happened to those who have went public or even semi-public about their blogs.  Even I have documented my issues about what happened when I did that.  I hope it goes better for you.</p>
<p>Glee because this means you can finally wear the t-shirt and be as scandalous as you want!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Izzy</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-268</link>
		<dc:creator>Izzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 02:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Because I know you care about him (and because underneath it all I am a hopeless romantic), I hope that your words are enough to kick his ass right up to the plate but if not...f*@k him (just not literally, no matter how much you want to...lol).  

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because I know you care about him (and because underneath it all I am a hopeless romantic), I hope that your words are enough to kick his ass right up to the plate but if not&#8230;f*@k him (just not literally, no matter how much you want to&#8230;lol).  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep my fingers crossed for you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Wally Banners</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-267</link>
		<dc:creator>Wally Banners</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi Doll super blog!:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi Doll super blog!:)</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Fabulous</title>
		<link>http://whenwewereliars.com/2006/04/29/extend-a-warm-welcome-to-my-special-guest/#comment-266</link>
		<dc:creator>Mr. Fabulous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 00:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My opinion: It's time to move on.  You deserve a lot better.  And you shouldn't have to settle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My opinion: It&#8217;s time to move on.  You deserve a lot better.  And you shouldn&#8217;t have to settle.</p>
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