Comments on: One Girl http://whenwewereliars.com/2005/12/11/one-girl/ When we were wired, the world was like a secret. -- Matthew Good Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:42:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: New York City's Watchdog http://whenwewereliars.com/2005/12/11/one-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-16 New York City's Watchdog Mon, 12 Dec 2005 18:07:00 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/?p=95#comment-16 As much as I hate to admit it... I've had this happen on occasion... and usually its generally nerves. I tend to think its about comfort zone... deep down inside, he isn't secure and as comfortable with you about himself as he seems to be. Men have self-esteem issues too ya know? As for advice... don't try too hard. This sin't building a baseball field or anything. If you just let it happen... it will come... As much as I hate to admit it… I’ve had this happen on occasion… and usually its generally nerves.

I tend to think its about comfort zone… deep down inside, he isn’t secure and as comfortable with you about himself as he seems to be. Men have self-esteem issues too ya know?

As for advice… don’t try too hard. This sin’t building a baseball field or anything. If you just let it happen… it will come…

]]> By: Anna Banana http://whenwewereliars.com/2005/12/11/one-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Anna Banana Mon, 12 Dec 2005 03:46:00 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/?p=95#comment-15 Sometimes the shy ones are the keepers, give him some time. And give yourself some time too while you are at it.... if it has only been 3 weeks you can wait longer, right? Sometimes the shy ones are the keepers, give him some time.

And give yourself some time too while you are at it…. if it has only been 3 weeks you can wait longer, right?

]]> By: Jaq http://whenwewereliars.com/2005/12/11/one-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-14 Jaq Mon, 12 Dec 2005 01:34:00 +0000 http://whenwewereliars.com/?p=95#comment-14 no real advice, just wanted to say that I read your post. maybe he is feeling pressured to perform. I suggest looking up some old Savage Love columns (sex advice from Dan Savage). Try googling some combo of Savage Love, Dan Savage, The Stranger (where the column is originally published--though it's syndicated a lot of places) and impotence, performance anxiety, etc. no real advice, just wanted to say that I read your post. maybe he is feeling pressured to perform. I suggest looking up some old Savage Love columns (sex advice from Dan Savage). Try googling some combo of Savage Love, Dan Savage, The Stranger (where the column is originally published–though it’s syndicated a lot of places) and impotence, performance anxiety, etc.

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