Last night I was watching a show on the Discovery Health channel about sex (hey, it was educational). One segment that caught my attention focused on a study on a college campus about attitudes toward casual sex; 75% of male students who were approached by a female researcher were willing to have sex with her. MJCF’s reaction was “Hell, yeah!”

So I asked him if he really would have sex with a woman he had never met or seen before … his response? “Isn’t that what I did with you?” Touche. Then he started typing. And typing. And typing. Soon an entire paragraph popped up on my screen:

“If some attractive woman started to talk to me…and then said ‘do you want to go back to my place for some action’ lol…I would be like hell ya….although not today or in the last months…but if I were techincally ’single’ or not involved in any way with anyone…but if it that were to have happened today…or within the last 3 months…I would say not interested.”

Damn. I am not sure what shocked me more: That he considers us to have some sort of commitment, that he would have sex with a total stranger (other than me lol) or that he’s had feelings for me for three months. (Now, three months is an interesting timeframe b/c it was just about three months ago that I dumped his ass and stopped talking to him.)

He and I met for lunch today — the first time he actually has made plans with me in advance. I was worried, like would we have enough to talk about? Can we have a conversation without sex? But it was fun … very much like a date. He even paid for lunch. ; )

∗ Posted by Monique on 09.28.2005
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